'I'm 60. . . and irresistible to men of 20 who want sex with no strings attached': Read MONICA PORTER'S unashamed account of how she took 15 lovers - most of them under 30 - and two in one day

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I seriously had more fun with my ex. I am in my 50s, divorced a few. She probably wants a family. For my profile photo I chose a black-and-white portrait in which I wore an enigmatic smile.

What I really hate though is when we are out and we get stares and inapporiate comments, but Im getting use to it. Meeting people at the gym has a few build in advantages.

Dating in your 50’s – Easy for Men… Not so much for Women!

Okay, Evan, I agree mostly with. What do you say about the reverse? I mean, I can see why an older man would want to date a younger woman — physically that is, but why would a 28-year-old woman want to date a man 45 or more? Penelope Dear Penelope, Beats the shit out of me. I can totally understand why older men go for younger women. Time creates wisdom — but it also creates responsibilities and complications — mortgage, kids, career, etc. All of this makes dating more and more complex as we get older. Still, most of them fail miserably, for the exact same reasons that I think Penelope is suggesting. Men want much younger women, but rarely do much younger women want older men. Put another way, if a woman has an array of other quality options closer to her age range, what incentives would she have to date a man who is SEVENTEEN YEARS OLDER? She can find that same amazing guy at age 30. Before any 40+ people get all hot and bothered about this — I am not judging. There is nothing wrong with aging. I do think people improve with age my wife is nodding. She could probably find him. All she has to do is go on Match. She can find that same amazing guy at age 30. Most of them are completely creeped out at the prospect of dating a guy who was alive when JFK was alive. There are many other things that are attractive about older men. They embody wisdom and stability. They can afford nicer restaurants and vacations and have cultivated greater tastes in the arts. And the truth is that most of them are completely creeped out at the prospect of dating a guy who was alive when JFK was alive. These women were born in the EIGHTIES. They grew up with computers. Whether we like it or not, there is nearly a full generation gap between 28 and 45. A few women may bridge this gap for lust or money or dimestore psychological reasons, but most of the 28-year-old women I know would prefer to date a great, stable 30-40 year-old — who also knows what Snapchat is. By the way, my girlfriend wants it on record that she would totally sleep with Harrison Ford if he should be reading this. So as a gift to both of them: Sure, why not? Happy 66 th, Indy! The age difference did not seem especially significant during the 5 yrs we were together. Harrison Ford being an exception for me as well though, I have to say. His sex drive was amazing at 48 years old when we got sapareted, it was a little boring but becaue he had health issues. Now I am 42 and dating a amazing 52 years old and we go crazy. When sex stop in a marriage is because health issue or love is gone that we dont care anymore and we stay on a marriage because you are just used to eachother. So I dont agree older men sucks. I was kinda creeped out by age difference. It took two years to see where her head was, she was 20 at the time. I can honestly say that when I first met him, I had no clue that he was his age…I knew he was legal because we worked together. Early to mid 30s yeah, but no one could have made me believe that this man was 46 when we met that was his age. I love him dearly and he has been the best father to my children, and an even better man to me. My family was very much against him and I dating because of his age but in time they have grown to love and adore him just as much as I do. He told me that I was mature, and that he usually never goes for a woman my age but there was something about me that he wanted. I literally gave a coworker my number and told her that he was going to be mine. Sexually he is everything! My friends joke and ask have we ran out of Viagra yet, I would be horrified at what he would do to me ifnue ever took one of those. Our union is perfect and we have yet to have an issue about our age difference. I love him and would not trade him for anything in the world. He said to me once — as women we always ask …y? There seems to be such a stigma concerning the latter. This may sound corny but I feel we are soul mates. I was seeing someone exactly the same age difference are you. I work within his place of work but hes of a much higher rank than me, plus he only got divorsed two years ago so I dont know if hes still coming to terms with that? I just no that there was a massive connection bewteen us both. I do really miss him. At first I felt a little weird about the age difference so I asked her. We live in a world of superficial belief. Yet here I am going to be 53 and yes I do look very. We have everything in common and yes we will be married. She is really that soulmate that we do desperately want. Good luck with all. She never had really been in a relationship. And because of her inexperience in relationships, he feels he can control her. Even more sad that her self-esteem is so low that she thinks this is the best she can do. If there are abusive behaviors, over time they tend to get worse. Praying for her best. There is nothing weird about it at all. Women are always more mature than their years and men usually less mature than their years. I think she feels the same way but there is still some work to do in that regard. If we do end up getting together I will be the happiest person in the world and I know I can make her happy too. At the time, the 12 years was a non-issue. Fast forward to me hitting my prime at 41, and him slowing down at 53…and it DID become a problem. He stopped wanting to travel and have fun with me. And frankly, he started aging really fast. He started looking 60, whereas he looked younger than his age when we met. We became incompatible, now divorcing. But it might be a problem later. I am a 53 year old man, and am working up to compete in my first Olympic length triathlon, next year. Yes, I have to work harder to achieve my goals than a 30 year old, but I still can achieve them. I plan to travel and have fun, and if someone 20 years my junior, who is amazingly intelligent AND still liked my was wanting to have a family, I am willing to negotiate terms and conditions. Italian well walking around the word since 18 …. He does not like to enjoy life not have the time since his demanding job take most of the time. If he is not tire or taking s nap recovering from his 16 to 17 hours days of work, therefore is not the age that make them old and boring but their goals and desites. Ithis not about age, it is about the desire to enjoy life st the fullest. Seems that you are doing just find and if you find that special young gal to be with you why not? He was busy setting up house with her he cash in his 30 thousand dollors and pay down on a condo for her and he put it in her name how stupid is that. I met her when I was 39 and she was 22. We love each other. No one is promised tomorrow. But can l ask all guys over 50, would you cheat on your younger woman? You said it right! Good luck to you and to all!! Although I know that sex is important in a relationship, I firmly believed that sex is just a complement of the relationship, I would be more concerned if you only show me affection inside the bedroom, but what about outside the bedroom? I am getting older faster than he is. So it varies by lifestage. If you happen to meet someone and get on very well and fall in love as we did then it may be worth navigating the obstacles. No problem at first, but as the years go by the problems grow. Problems in all areas. It will happen, just a matter of when. I am just as capable and willing in the bedroom as any 20 year old guy. Heck even men in their mid 40s are not the same as 30s. I would love sex several times a day. A man in his 30s is down a man in his 50s you are lucky if he can get it up that much. And with some of these relationships with 15-20 years differences, the men will be in their 60s when the woman begins to hit her prime. But the majority will not be able to keep up. It is rather common to hear men complain about their women not giving it up enough. And most times she cannot even last as long as I want too. We cook at home every day, eat a good breakfast of 80 % mixed ftuit. You would be amazed how many men your age say the same thing! What someone eats for breakfast can only go so far and does not make a 58 year old penis suddenly 30 years old! I mean it that were the case why do we even need Viagra? Just eat well and work out? All of the older men did that that I dated and it made zero difference. Seriously if I had a dime for every man in their 50s that said what you did I would be a rich lady! I mean it most only be men in their 80s and 90s who need viagra? I have a physique better than most 20 or 30 year old guys — — and have more stamina and tenderness in the bedroom than them, as well. Sounds like your guy has given up, which is a state of mind, not a matter of age. Seriously ever dude over 50 looks 35 and is in great shape right? Or at least all of those commenting on here! And they all have the stamina of 30 year olds. Quick to shoot down what these men say. She also experiences physical changes that may make it difficult to have sex or require a change in how she does. On the flip side is the male response to this age related decline I call it the 3ds defend , deny , deflect. How dare you accuse me of slowing down in bed. These is usually followed by a personal jab or name calling. Because men think all other men their age are stallions in bed. Men lie to each other about using the little blue pill and rarely if at all do men discuss this issue with each other. What results is that men struggling with age related changes reach the conclusion that they are all along and something is clearly wrong with them. Or the women blame themselves thinking the decreases drive or ED is their fault. So the reality just needs to be accepted. And it is reality. My uncles and aunts, from both paternal and maternal side, on an average have an age gap of 10 years between them. My grandparents had 14 years between them. In short, it depends on the people involved in the relationship. I love my guy so much and he is so good to me. Right now I cannot imagine falling out of love with him and the thought of it brings me to tears. I am 31 and he is 53. He still works out and is in great shape and I constantly worry about our future and taking the next step. But the incompatibility in a few years is something I may not be prepared for. Now the thought of that is not attractive. I know we should call the quits now to save the heartache and time but I am terrified because he is the only man that has ever conquered me. Work on staying happy and improving your health and quality of life. Love, live and laugh, and stop thinking so much. I been married for almost 23 years, been with my husband for almost 28 years — he will be 58 in two days and I am 46. And we been together since, and yes we still love each other. I was 19 and he was 32 when we began to date. Or see yah and yeah that was great, I experienced that by myself!!! Wait… Then why did. I get married to SHARE my life and life experiences… To do alone……sky diving hiking kyacking Then ill be widow at an older age and die with out that grow old togther cause he already died quite a bit before I was close to aging in. Just to loose your true love so quick I was a cna geriatrics and am concerned of our future to where he married his future caretaker and ill be left screwed with angry underpaid. And withoutmy loving husband a hand to squeeze. I know thats all. With what I said do i? Perhaps crazy… Or honest. But freaking crap I didnt want at allll to die that much earlier than my husband. Grow old together, not watch you grow hecka old slowly die while I slowly watch and grow a hurt back to now deal with alone and poor due to medication s and medical bills and funeral. I wanted to be. Ive seen sooo many mourn the death of spouses , and now I get to out live by 20 thats honestly a lot but not at all, to restart a relationship, life and identify and the quality of life in those later years my goodness. I think being in the medical field had really really jaded me and I hope distorted my view. And this all crazy talk but. Not to mention honestly are you as fast as you were when you were 20s as in 60? Orrrrr 70s vers 30?? Noooo the gap and body progression is real and when you hit 42 you age 6 months quicker every x amount. Then ill be widow at an older age and die with out that grow old togther cause he already died quite a bit before I was close to aging in. Just to loose your true love so quick I was a cna geriatrics and am concerned of our future to where he married his future caretaker and ill be left screwed. I know thats all. Personally, Do allllll the younger people a favor thats more than 7-8 years difference. BEFORE feelings adheres put up a boundaries out of love and respect of THEIR life. You already had your 20s why take another s cause when you 70 and theyre 55 thats a huge difference in those years especially. Your stealing years and hopes and dreams of the life of healthy age progression TOGETHER. I wish he would. He could have found. The pain is soooo real. And ask allllll the time why. And I ask why 15 years. Ghost of Mrs more, Didnt spell. Not wanting to travel or go to functions is a problem in personality differences than age. You two may have been a bad fit but I think the age difference may have been a red herring here. They embody wisdom and stability. They can afford nicer restaurants and vacations and have cultivated greater tastes in the arts. She wants to be treated like a child. She wants to be immature. I can take care of myself financially for now and if we stay together longer I imagine us having a similar dynamic as any younger couple where we work together not just me living off of him. Awesome words you write. We have been dating for 7 weeks. I separated 20 months ago from my wife of 23 years. I never imagined being with a woman 17 years my junior. Not that it was out of the question, it just never entered my mind that I would be with a woman much younger than myself. We enjoy each other very much. Moreso me than her at the moment… I Love her and want to spend what time I have left in this life soley with her. We have Many things in common, one of which, would be Very difficult to replicate. I have asked her if she has seen anyone else since we met and she told me no. That is reassuring, but I am very paranoid that she may toss me to the curb for another, possibly, younger guy. I met him when I was 21 and he was 48. So reading through most of the replies kind of makes me sad of course. We have so much in common and we have so much fun together. But I love the life I share with him. Reading through the comments makes me sad again when I think about sure…in 20 years I will be 43 and he will be 70. Good luck to you and your man. Most relationships with a large age gap, whether the man or woman is older, tend not to last. Eventually that age difference starts to matter. He will likely face losing you when his age starts to show, and it will. No one is immune to time. We get slower and less healthy. Things may be all fun and laughs now but when you turn 33 and start to think about the fact that he is 60 you may feel very differently about the relationship. At that point you may decide an attractive and vibrant 40 year old better suits your lifestyle, but your current man may not want to let you go. My relationship with kind of been bumy. As if men can only agree or see relevance when their age group or kind is the exact type of men referenced. They are willing to throw away long loving relationships with women for a night of lust. Men this age will chest and justify it like no other age group. Risking family life and hurting his partner. You have to beg these men to get std test because they act as if their fragile little ego is so offended by something they should do anyway. They have never dealt with adversity. The slightest hardship will result in a nervous breakdown and the woman will be stuck babying them back to their male privilege health. They are fake cultured. They travel the globe and take Snapchat but know nothing of the culture or people that they visit other than to sound pseudo cultured. They think experimenting with drugs is a romantic activity. No matter what socioeconomic class. Older men are men. They know how to open doors, let a woman relax, be sensitive when needed and string where it counts. Millennial men are ridiculous and also now highly feminized. Material issues younger men being attracted to older women 1. But I have to add older men are better in bed too…. I was 23 and my ex was 36…and yes he robbed the cruddle. He wanted to mold me to what he wanted…the only trouble there is, I did grow up. As for daddy issues. My dad was never around at my young age…. I seriously had more fun with my ex. That made me roll my eyes a bit. Honestly, why go out with a much older man if you still have to work hard to please him! Surely the pay off of going out with a much older man is that he is working very hard to please you!! And yes you can appreciate your dad. Even if it starts out that way, the youngin will grow and realize the folly of youth. Better make sure she has no financial assets to take care of herself. If you are very rich, she will still leave you and collect alimony. People can find others their own age to appreciate. Unless you are a movie star or famous person, keep dreaming. Appreciation is not a reason to get married. Now we are both retired and we are closer than ever. My own dad was affectionate with his 3 daughters but it was clear that my mom was his girl. That is what I got. The sense of entitlement this woman displayed was truly unbelievable. So yes, she was a harpy. But HE was the cheater. You should be cursing HIM to hell and back. The Other Woman to whom he could have lied to get her into bed is at fault. Ladies, sure get mad at the woman, too. The other woman is irrelevant to your anger. If this simple logic is not something you gals can get your arms around, no wonder there is so much dysfunction once a woman gets into a relationship. Of COURSE I hold him responsible for his cheating! When did I ever say otherwise? Frankly, I blame both of them for their actions. Two people made a choice to betray their spouses and destroy two families. Now both have paid the price for that choice. She is now a single mother with no support and he wants to come home to me but that door is permanently closed. Those are some pretty snide assumptions you are making there, especially considering that I never said anything you could base those on in my comment. She knew me and our young children. Our kids played together for crying out loud. She is a Narcissistic Gold Digger so, no, she was not some innocent victim that my husband lied to. Most women on this board vilify uncommitted men commitment phobes, man-children, narcissists, etc. All three of you only mentioned all the details after I challenged what was written. Why would EITHER woman do that??? The anger seems so disproportionate to the offender. So you took it upon yourself to inform us of how very deluded we all are without any background information. I could pluck all kinds of things out of the ether and sound off on you for neglecting to mention them. For example: You never even ONCE brought up the plight of MEN who were cheated on so, by your own logic, you must not even care about them. Now see how silly that sounds? Ditto for the rest of us. If you actually care how we feel about something just ask before you criticize, unless criticizing is really all you wanted to do in the first place. Forgive me for not expounding upon the topic to your satisfaction. Not arguing with you at all here Only to vilify the other woman, when the MAN — who was in the relationship with you — should be one vilified. All three of you only mentioned all the details after I challenged what was written. Was I under some obligation to tell you every tiny detail right off the bat? Do you get to dictate what we share publicly and when? Why would EITHER woman do that??? The anger seems so disproportionate to the offender. I took out the majority though admitted not all of my anger on HIM. There is no emotional investment in the woman. She is not someone the wife has a deep attachment to, therefore, it is easier to forgive the guy and blame the outside enemy. Not condoning it, just considering why it might happen. You felt the relevant details was to name call the woman. I would have commented differently had you and Stephan and Sharon wrote with as much anger towards the man as towards the woman. That puts a whole different spin on things. A man in his 40s or 50s is likely either married or divorced. Dude goes through a mid life crisis, leaves wife and kids for a younger POA who makes him feel all youthful again. He stuck with her anyway for a while to avoid being alone but he did eventually dump her. I have to admit that it makes me quite happy to see that SHE is now a single mother too because she left her husband to steal mine. Karma is a beautiful thing! All that said, we were very much in love and it felt like we were equals. I know that people looked at us and thought things — esp. And, it turns out, in our lives. But we never talked about that stuff — we were just into each other and our work together. But it also feels like peace and happiness. I do know many successful May-December couples. The woman is most often the younger, but not always. Gotta get off the internet. My eHarmony guy is gonna call in a few. Not as exciting as Award Man, but very funny, nice. I totally buy younger women going for older men. See it all the time. They only plan on being together for 15 years, give or take. Basically a really long LTR or a planned mid-term marriage. Does anyone have a problem with this? He gets what he wants fantasies fulfilled, feels younger, arm candy, whatever , and she gets what she wants that is, a comfortable life. I am 53 and am on friendly terms with several women in their 40s, who are keenly looking for someone to settle down with. There are few single men out there who are economically viable, and who have got their act together. BUT there are plenty of women, desperately lonely, and will do almost everything to have someone love and care for them. There are many more 40 year old women than there are 40 year old men. In person as well as online. I have dated ages both ways. Someone who most people know of, Sandra Bullock, has just been voted most beautiful woman in the world in some poll and she is a beauty at 51, and another familiar face, Christie Brinkley is a total knockout at 61, but there are plenty of beauties of that age on match etc. I was married for 23 yrs before i found out my wife was cheating, I got divorced, then I met her, her family loves me.. The younger men just want sex. You still look good and feel young, but the only men who want a real relationship with you are over 55. I completely agree and disagree as well yes in that sense ick. And not quite correct cause, sure some most likely a yeas thats whats up, nasty predatory denile nastys. But if you actually fell in love. Cause the person at a real loveing level alll you love about them , you watch their body age and them struggle to communicate and talk and it killllls you. I think people should be mindful on the younger and understand what you could be taking and be kind enough to say no. And marry your own age or closer and form a relationship to love with someone your own age. Wish he would have pushed me away a to save aallll this death pain. He could have found someone his age. KNOW what I would. They only plan on being together for 15 years, give or take. Basically a really long LTR or a planned mid-term marriage. Does anyone have a problem with this? He gets what he wants fantasies fulfilled, feels younger, arm candy, whatever , and she gets what she wants that is, a comfortable life. I ask because the VRD can live like Hef cialis, viagra. No offense, still sounds like legalized prostitution. Perhaps the fact that guys closer to my age are finally maturing has something to do with it. And lastly, in regards to the sugar daddy or rich older man phenomeon. Not necessarily the case. Financially though, I suspect I have far more assets. I believe she is an animal lover. These days a lot of women are holding onto their hotness. Would each have the same feelings if he were an old loser and she were a young ugly thing? It is not normal to fall in love with someone who looks like your dad. But if he promises security, you might take him on the offer. I admit you might grow to care for such a person but chances are he chose the inexperienced girl to manipulate. When she grows up, game over. Some will even get you working 16 hours straight overnight hours whilst they sleep with their pot bellies hanging out. Also, you seem to ignore the premise that Lance set forth, upon which I based my comment. Deathslayer writes yet another priceless post. A choice quote or 2, so people can link over… If you women no longer have vaginas, how would you keep your man happy?. You could have said, learn to play pool, take him to a sports game, or boating. There were a ton of things you could have done to be with your man and make him happy. But the only way all you women could define yourselves was as three holes and nothing else. They are not that stupid. They just accept it as the cost of admission, like paying a membership fee to join a country club or a cover charge to enter a night club. Older women appreciate younger men for the same reasons older men appreciate younger women. Younger men are more likely to have a flat stomach and all their hair. Perhaps to get back to that time of life when sex and relationships were merely sport and conquests? Is there an entertainment star you admire or did as a teen who is 12 or more yrs. If so, it might amuse you in the coming decades to see how well THEY age. I deserve someone who will love me unconditionally, no matter what. I have never felt so relaxed around him, he knows this and wants to spend more time with me.

That almost never happens with a guy in his 50s and if it does, run away. This may sound corny but I feel we are soul mates. Charles and I met in the piece bar at Claridge's. The men I want to pursue are handsome, fit, and financially secure. It is brutal out there dating. This is definitely a generational thing…and my generation just did not produce great relational partners. This was a truly special human in so many resistance. Being with a tall man allows me to walk tall and straight in my heels while at the same time making me feel more petite without slouching. Arm candy and dependency. To put it another way, that's as long as a guy in his 30s has been sincere. Manny, The immediacy of your response shows the hostility of your mindset.